Why do we say - "A widower is Widowed" ?

"When a man is a widower why do we say he was widowed? Why don't we say he was widowered?" 

- Film: 'Sleeples in Seatlte'

Some random shayari that makes good sense

" Har khamoshi ka matlab inkaar nahi hota,
Har nakamyabi ka matlab haar nahi hota.
Toh kya huwa agar hum tume na pasake,
Sirf paane ka matlab pyar nahi hota. "
- Anonymous

Happy Birthday ! ! !

Its my birthday. Its not just like any other birthday. This birthday is very special to me. :)

and oh ..

by the way .. I am gonna be a Vegetarian from now on. YES .. a total veggie !
no more, hydrabadi dum biryani, chicken pepper fry, no more beef steaks, no more schezwan shrimps, no lobsters, no stir fried sausages, no more pork fries, no more fish fried in gravy, no more sweet corn chicken soup, no beef fried with coconut chips, no more golden fried squids, no more KFC, no McDonalds, no more non-veg extravaganza pizza from dominoes and no more of anything that had any bit of life in it ! period.